Ruminations are repetitive thoughts that cause you to focus on replaying the same negative thoughts over and over again. You’re continuously thinking about distressing situations, worries or negative thoughts without finding a solution, making you feel worse instead of feeling better. It’s natural to think about your problems from time to time, but when these thoughts become repetitive and unproductive, they can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. Ruminating thoughts can be linked with feelings of sadness, anxiety, guilt or regret and can cause a spiral where each thought triggers another, creating a seemingly endless loop.
Anyone can experience ruminating thoughts, but it’s important to remember that while it may feel like you’re working through a problem to solve it, rumination usually only leads to more stress and less clarity.
Causes of ruminating thoughts and conditions they can happen with
Several factors can trigger ruminating thoughts, and they can also occur alongside certain mental health conditions. Factors that can result in rumination can include:
- Anxiety and depression — People with anxiety or depression can be prone to rumination. They may dwell on their fears, worries or past mistakes. Focusing on these thoughts can make it hard to focus on anything else.
- Perfectionism — Those who strive for perfection may ruminate on mistakes or perceived failures. They may constantly replay these thoughts and feel stuck in a cycle of self-criticism.
- Trauma — Experiencing trauma can cause repetitive thoughts about the traumatic event. Dwelling on these thoughts can make it hard to move forward.
- Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) — OCD can cause intrusive, unwanted thoughts that get stuck in a loop. These obsessive thoughts can lead to compulsive behaviors.
- Stress and burnout — High levels of stress can trigger ruminating thoughts, especially when someone feels overwhelmed and like they can’t cope with their responsibilities.
- Social anxiety — People with social anxiety may focus on how they’ll be seen by others or replay social interactions over and over in their head. These thoughts can lead to rumination.
- Low self-esteem — People who struggle with their self-worth may ruminate on their flaws. These ruminating thoughts can reinforce negative self-beliefs about themselves.
Recognizing these causes is the first step to understanding why you may be experiencing ruminating thoughts. Remember, rumination isn’t your fault, and there are steps you can take to help you manage it.
16 tips that can help you manage and overcome ruminating thoughts
Managing ruminating thoughts takes practice, but there are techniques that can help you break the cycle, including strategies such as:
- Recognizing when you’re ruminating — Awareness is the first step. Pay attention to when your thoughts start looping.
- Using grounding techniques – Practicing grounding techniques like deep breathing, focusing on your senses or feeling an object in your hand can help bring your focus back to the present moment.
- Challenging your thoughts — Question the validity of your ruminating thoughts. Are they based on facts, or are they assumptions? Challenge negative thoughts and focus on more balanced thoughts.
- Distracting yourself — Doing an activity that needs your full attention, such as reading, drawing or playing a game, can distract you and shift your focus from the thoughts.
- Acknowledging what is and isn’t in your control — It can be hard, but focus on what you can change and let go of what you can’t. This can help redirect your energy to productive actions.
- Identifying triggers — Pay attention to what triggers your ruminations. Identifying these triggers can help you to avoid them or manage your response when you can’t.
- Journaling your thoughts — Writing down your thoughts can help you process them and release them from your mind.
- Seeking therapy — A therapist can help you understand the root of your rumination and provide you with strategies to manage it effectively.
- Getting Executive Function coaching — If ruminating thoughts are impacting your Executive Function, working with a coach can help you develop better problem-solving strategies and other skills you need to boost and regain your focus.
- Saying ruminating thoughts out loud — Speaking your thoughts out loud can help you hear them differently. This can make them feel less overwhelming and easier to let go.
- Changing your environment — Sometimes, just moving to a different room, going for a walk or changing your scenery can help break the cycle of ruminating thoughts.
- Getting active — Physical activity, whether it’s a brisk walk or a yoga routine, can help you clear your mind and reduce stress.
- Spending time outside — Nature can have a calming effect on your mind. Spend some time outside to help you reset your thoughts.
- Repeating positive affirmations — Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Remind yourself that you’re capable and worthy.
- Feeling the emotions — Sometimes, allowing yourself to fully feel every emotion can help you process it and let it go.
- Readjusting your life goals — Ruminating thoughts may be a sign that you need to reevaluate your goals. Make sure your goals align with what is truly important to you.
You don’t have to manage ruminating thoughts on your own. There are people who can help you. With the right support, you can learn to manage your ruminating thoughts and live a happier and healthier life.
Moving past ruminating thoughts with Beyond BookSmart
Every student has the ability to become the best version of themselves by improving their Executive Function skills, such as emotional regulation, organization and time management. All of these skills can be taught, learned and applied for success. They can contribute to an effective study routine that leads to greater academic and personal achievements.
At Beyond BookSmart, we help students improve these critical, lifelong skills through our Executive Function coaching services. We also know that every child has unique strengths and challenges. That’s why we customize our coaching sessions for each student’s individual needs, learning differences and emotional patterns.
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